Spencer Said...
EDM613 - WK 4 Reading - The truth hurts sometimes
For me, being the board has all kinds of difficulties that come along with the notion. I have been able to find solace in the blame game for my entire teaching career. The students that come to me are usually several grades behind in their mathematics knowledge. Much of this is due to (here comes the blame) teachers being "run off" by the bad acting children. In fact the students brag about how many teachers they have been able to get to leave. Having to accept responsibility of how I react to the situation will make me a better teacher from here on out. Instead of being able to write off the students that are not understanding what they ought to have learned in the past, I now have sparks to light. The students are on my board and I get to bring them to new places with new learning experiences. I can fight the facts that they are behind, or I can find out where they are and bring them as far around my board as possible in the time we have together. I can be just another voice telling them what they can't do, or I can be a refreshing fountain of encouragement. The art of possibility is just that, an art. Some people are naturals, others have to work hard at it. The great thing about the art of possibility is that everyone can grow.
Meghan Bassett said...
Spencer-
Well, you have me exhausted by your post! I know exactly what you mean about getting run off by students who push your buttons. I too know the students that brag about getting teachers to cry, leave, or flip out. Unfortunately with this generation, it’s something we have to deal with, and you’re exactly right in your interpretation of the chapter. How HARD it will be to change the way we, as teachers, see these students and handle them is the issue. For me, it feels like a constant fight against my instincts and it’s hard to break. I try to read this quote, and put it in my signature in my email, to make sure I see it everyday. Maybe it can help you too (you’ve probably seen it before).
"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company… a church… a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past… we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you… we are in charge of our Attitudes." – Charles R. Swindoll
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